bite the hand that feeds you

A lot of women (mostly heterosexual) still believe that feminism is not needed. For thousands of years our survival was based on our subordinated, masochistic connection with a dominant culture, so it's perfectly understandable why it can be hard to break these bonds. (...) Sometimes it can be challenging to get rid of shackles, but it's worth it. It's a good thing to bite the hand that feeds you. Once you're truly equal, you don't need that hand anymore. No domination. You eat together. You simply share food. 

- Read & Riot, Nadya Tolokonnikova (2018)